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How do i move on from this?
there was this kid that i really liked for years. he told me that he liked me like 2 or three weeks ago, and i was so happy. we started talking, then last sunday it was my birthday and he took my virginity. i am only 14.
i found out that he told his ex that it was a mistake. and after we had sex he never texted me back or anything. i was talking to his ex’s and they all told me that he’s a player and he would tell a girl anything to get in their pants. it’s true. he just has that effect that like, i know he’s so bad for me and he’s an asshole but i can’t stop liking him. not even the truth can change my mind. don’t get my wrong i’m so furious with him but i can’t stop liking him. he made me so happy when i was with him, just thinking about it gives me butterflies. i wish i could go back with him, having sex with him was a really big regret. how do i distract myself from talking to him? how do i stop liking him? :’(
you just need to force yourself. he tricked you into feeling that way the person u get butterflies over isn’t real it was just a persona to get you to sleep with him.
don’t worry about sleeping with him everyone has regrets and it just builds character just try avoid him if he speaks to u just act like u don’t care or hit him/insult him just don’t let him know u miss him.
kittenboo19 | Oct 29, 2009
TRY DATING OTHER BOYS TALK TO OTHER BOYS
LADY NIQUA | Oct 29, 2009
I have been in your same situation. Granted, I was several years older but that doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt any less. I was 19, just starting college, and it was the same situation. This guy had a way of manipulating people to get them to think he liked them and then would be done with them almost right away. It took several times of me going back to this guy, thinking he would change for me to realize he wasn’t the person I wanted him to be and never would be. It took a couple months for me to totally wrap my head around it, and even after the fact, it was weird for me to be around him- I thought he owed me something for causing me that much pain. The truth is, you will have experiences like this, with jerks, a lot more than you’d care to. You’ll eventually find someone or someones who share the same ideals as you and aren’t just looking for sex, but it will take some time.
For me, it was finally dealing with the situation as opposed to staying in denial. I figured, i probably would still like him for a while, but being with him would only bring me more pain. I thought I would never like anybody the way I liked him, but after I dealt with it, it got better. Every time we grieve the loss of somebody or something, we have to go through a process- we are in disbelief, then we get sad, then we feel hopeless, then we get angry and then eventually we feel better and are able to move on. The good part about these experiences? They are lessons learned for the next time around. As you get older, you’ll have more of these experiences under your belt and you’ll be able to sniff out the losers before they get to you. Remember, you have to go through some heartache and kiss some frogs before you can meet "Prince Charming." I hope this makes you feel better and just know that this has happened to thousands of girls before you as it will happen to thousands after, and you will get through it. You will emerge a better, stronger woman. Chin up!! Don’t let a stupid guy get you down.
Elizabeth | Oct 29, 2009
find other things to do. just cut yourself from him because you know there isn’t going to be any return. I suggest you open yourself to finding someone new. also, even if you feel uncomfortable it really helps to have family support. go to your mom or a close aunt or older cousin. they won’t judge you and will always be there for you.
Julie V | Oct 29, 2009


